As a society we have changed the meaning of words and language has become slang, improper and inappropriate. Rather than use words to encourage others, we use words to degrade others, to criticize, to bully and to belittle. Recently I saw an advertisement by Always that proved how careless we use the phrase "like a girl." It's an insult used to stereotype an entire gender as incapable of doing something society believes everyone should be able to do a certain way.
So many people don't realize just exactly the damage their words cause to other people. Gossip is one of the most esteem-shattering problems in society. Rumors and gossip spread like fire, especially aided by technology, and there is almost nothing the victim can do to stop it. When you are in a situation in which the topic of discussion has turned to gossip, change the subject or leave the situation. It is better to stop rumors yourself rather than to just send them on to fit in.
I've learned that the smallest word of encouragement can make the world of difference to someone and you would never know. Just saying "hello" could make somebody's day who otherwise never gets talked to or gets verbally abused at home. I once randomly told my sister she was beautiful and that made her day. Your words should reflect the kind of person you are.
Cursing and swearing is also another issue in society. Swear words that have become so commonly acceptable are in reality harsh, vulgar, unintelligent ways of expressing your feelings. Cursing is very repellent to people who are around you, and the words you speak influence the choices you make. A common problem people have is taking the Lord's name in vain. Using it to complain, or just casually throw around is offensive to God and to other people around you whether you know it or not. Be aware of who you are around and the situation you are in to watch how you speak.
"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good."
-Ephesians 4:29
The most powerful words come from God, the scriptures that He has provided for us, aka the Word of God. Blessings come from adhering to what God has commanded us and obeying His commandments, which include clean language and a respectable use of His name. (1 Nephi 15:24) .
Just remember that your words are a reflection of your true character and the person you are becoming. It might be hard to break a habit of swearing, or to stop gossiping, or to quit criticizing everyone, but the end result is worth it and you will feel uplifted and happier.
Just remember that your words are a reflection of your true character and the person you are becoming. It might be hard to break a habit of swearing, or to stop gossiping, or to quit criticizing everyone, but the end result is worth it and you will feel uplifted and happier.
What do your words say about you?
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